99 Ways to Influence Change, #70: Be flexible

The path of change is not linear.  Nor is it predictable.  Circumstances change.  The urgent pops up and pushes attention aside.  People react to change in ways you don’t expect.  Others say one thing and do the opposite.  The new system you designed doesn’t work the way it should.  It costs more than you thought.  All kinds of things occur that throw you off your original plan.

As a change agent, it can be tempting to stick to your plan about how change should happen.  But when something new and unexpected happens, you suddenly have a new reality that was different from the one you started with.  You will have to readjust your approach in order to continue forward.

Be flexible.  Keep an open mind about alternate routes to the same end result.  Don’t bang your head against the wall trying to stick to the way you thought it should work.  If what you’re trying isn’t working, try something else.  Dance with it.

Where do you need to be flexible?

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #69: Make it fun

It is easy to think that in order for people to take your initiative seriously, you have to be, well, serious.  My general observation about life is that most people are happier, more open minded, and less defensive when they are having fun than when they are being serious.  If people are smiling while participating in the change, it means they are enjoying it and will want to continue the experience!  To influence change, make it fun!

Play and humor help with many aspects of change.  Here are some of the things you can accomplish by adding fun:

  • Gain attention
  • Kick people out of their comfort zones
  • Neutralize office politics
  • Entice people to participate
  • Make it memorable
  • Increase creativity

You don’t have to be serious for people to take the change seriously.  Fun will reinforce the change when it consistent and aligned with other messages.  So add humor.  Incorporate play.  Include a game.  Be silly.  Make it fun!

How might you make your change initiative fun?

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #68: Gain commitment

When discussing organizational change, we often talk about the necessity of gaining buy-in for the initiative.  In poker, buy-in is the minimum bet required to play the game.  Similarly, buy-in of change is simply agreement that the project should go forward. To gain momentum, you really need people to go beyond buy-in.  To influence change, gain commitment.

Commitment means people pledge to do their part to implement change. It is much more than simply head-nodding.  Those who are committed to change complete tasks, strive to achieve goals and align their words with their actions.

In Influence:  The Psychology of Persuasion, Dr. Robert Cialdini says that if people commit, orally or in writing, to an idea or goal, they are more likely to honor that commitment.  The desire to not contradict oneself is so strong that even if the original incentive or motivation is removed after they have already agreed, they will continue to honor the agreement.

So, make sure people are writing down or saying out loud that they will implement change.  For more powerful commitment, get them to be as specific as possible about what they will say and do to support the change.

How might you gain commitment?

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #67: Go first

Every organizational change initiative needs a leader.  (Actually, lots of leaders.)  When we think of a leader, generally we think of someone who creates a vision, influences people to get on board, and holds people accountable to staying on track.  But practically speaking, a leader is the one who is first in line, whom everyone else is following.  To influence change, go first.

People do not follow someone who says, “Go that way.”  Instead, a leader says, “Come this way.”  You can’t expect someone else to test the waters.  A leader needs to step forward, to try it out, and show that it’s going to be okay – or at least that the people who follow will not be alone.

Even as you lead change from the middle, you have the opportunity to go first.  You can step forward and demonstrate to people at your own level in the organization that it is safe to speak up and take action to make a difference.  Anything you create to help people change the way they work you must be willing to try first.  Also, use your own influence with organizational leaders to help them go first.

Where do  you need to go first?

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Treading water without adequate leadership support?

If you are trying to influence change without authority – whether you are in project management, process improvement, engineering, human resources, information technology, strategic planning, or another role where you are leading change from the middle – at some point you need someone with authority to back you up.

I wish it weren’t true.  It doesn’t matter how noble the initiative is, or how much more efficient and effective they will be, or how much better service or quality will be.  Ultimately, people will look to their bosses to see what is important and what they should be doing.  Right or wrong, if you are not the boss, your influence is limited.

From my own personal experience as well as change agents I’ve coached, I’ve discovered one of the truths about influencing change:  If you want leaders to support your initiative, you have to help them do it.

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #66: Respect resistance

Anyone who tries to implement change in an organization experiences resistance.  While it shows up as overt challenges or complaints, it also appears as a more subtle digging-in of heels.  Missed deadlines.  Rescheduled meetings.  Sticking with the usual.  Hesitance.  Silence.

The experience of resistance for change agents is personal.  A recent post on Twitter by @estherderby said it best, “Resistance = Other people are not doing things I want them to do w/ the speed or enthusiasm that I desire.”  I liken the feeling to pushing a boulder uphill.  It’s easy to get frustrated when it seems like people are not listening to you.

Resistance is not something that can be overcome or pushed aside.  The harder you push, the harder you will be pushed against.  If you were able to bulldoze through resistance, you will have reached the other side without bringing anyone else along.  Instead, to influence change, respect resistance.

Resistance itself is not bad.  In fact, it is perfectly normal and justified.  Humans like things to stay the same, be predictable, remain safe.  It’s written in our brains to either fight or run away from things that we perceive as threats to our security.

Approach resistance with curiosity.  Resistance serves as an opportunity to improve the change process.  It helps you clarify what to do next.  Sometimes it gives a warning of something about to go wrong.  When you seek to understand resistance, you give people an opportunity to be heard.  Work with resistance instead of against it.

How might you better understand the sources of resistance in your organization?

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #65: Induce guilt

As behavior modification goes, guilt and its partner shame are effective – albeit demoralizing – tactics for getting people to fall in line.  The feeling of guilt is caused by making someone believe they have done something wrong and that they should blame themselves for it.  The bad experience is the impetus for that person to conform to the “right” way next time.  One way to influence change is to induce guilt.

Any behavior we use to convey judgment of someone else has the potential to induce guilt.  A stern reprimand, a disgusted eye roll, an incredulous look, a snicker.  The key is to make the person feel bad for stepping out of the norm, going against group values, or breaking the rules.

People generally don’t want to be around others who make them feel guilty all the time, so I don’t recommend this as a long-term influence strategy.  However, we all induce guilt from time to time without necessarily thinking about it, mainly because it tends to work in small doses.

This one was not originally included, but belongs on the list of Everyday Influence Tactics Not Found in Leadership Books.

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #64: Hold them accountable

Change often requires that a number of people agree to take on tasks that they will perform on their own.  The odds are reduced that people will follow through on their commitments if they believe no one will follow up and make sure that they did it.  To influence change, hold people accountable.

Keep track of the things people say they will do, and check in to see if they have completed them.  Give them a forum to report their progress.  Help people stay on task and on time.  Discuss how they can effectively be held accountable, and define what that means.  Make sure to agree on the consequences if they don’t maintain their part of the project.

When someone doesn’t follow through, explore what happened that prevented them from success; not to find fault, but to better understand what is holding them back.  Then help them find what they need to succeed.  If there were defined consequences, always follow through.

How might you hold people accountable for implementing the change?

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99 Ways to Influence Change, #63: Adjust the environment

I once worked in a building where the official name of the wall color was Touch of Gray.  It was stark raving neutral with a hint of depression!  When I took on the task of improving creativity and innovation, I suggested that we change the default color to something warmer, and also let people paint their offices.  That idea was nixed, so for my own office (and sanity), I spiced it up by hanging colorful curtains and reupholstering the gray cubicle walls that made up my desk with red fabric.  Suddenly my office became a wellspring of ideas and a place that I wanted to sit and work.  To influence change, adjust the environment.

Our physical environment affects our perceptions and emotions, and enables our activities.  It’s best if the environment in your organization aligns with the change you want to implement.  Ask yourself:

  • Are conference rooms equipped and decorated in ways that support how you want people to act in meetings?
  • Do the layouts of break rooms and other gathering locations facilitate the types of interactions you want to create?
  • Does the flow of the manufacturing floor or the distribution area enable good decisions?
  • Do the plaques and displays in the lobby give the right impression about the direction the organization is going and the things you want to celebrate?
  • What adjustments might you make to the parking lot?  The mail room?

I was just reading yesterday about a study that showed that people who sit in comfy chairs are more amenable to negotiations, and those sitting in hard chairs are more rigid in their positions.  Holding hot coffee instead of a cold drink makes people more generous.  We are very much connected to the world we live and work in.  Take an inventory of the environment of your organization and see what might need adjusting to help support your change.

How might you adjust the environment?

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Interview: Creating the Energy for Change

Today on The Change Agent’s Dilemma radio show, I interviewed Dr. Jackie Sherman, Principal Consultant at The Jackie Sherman Group, Inc..  Jackie is known for her ability to align and mobilize organizations to accomplish their most demanding objectives.  On the show, Jackie shared a formula for creating the energy you need to successfully implement change.

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